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Tom Alouf Enters Chapter Eternal

10/23/2010
Tom Alouf, an Aeronautical Science major with the class of ’82, was initiated at Eta Iota on 01/17/81, passed away Saturday 10/23 after a battle with cancer.

Remembered as bigger than life, Tom embodied the spirit of youth, and will be dearly missed!

Tom’s obituary as published in the Roanoke Times is found here.

Tommy’s last wish was for more participation in the bone marrow transplant system, www.bethematch.org to register.

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Memories of Morris H. Ford

By Art Jacobs, 5 June 2010

(A eulogy for Morris Ford spoken by Art Jacobs at the memorial service in Charlotte on Saturday, June 5th.)

There are a 1,000 other things I’d rather be doing right now.
This is a trip I did not want to make. But, I am not telling any of you anything that you don’t already feel.
Kathy, on my flight to Charlotte, I wrote out some notes on what I wanted to say so that I could collect my thoughts and be organized. (And heaven knows that Morris would want this to be organized!)
And now, I’m afraid that if I do not read them – if I do not use my notes as a crutch – to get me through this, my emotions will take over and not allow me to say what is in my heart.
One day, who knows when, I might be able to make some partial sense of what has happened. Right now, for the life of me, I cannot get my head around this tragedy.
All I know is this, like you, I have an aching space in my soul that will never be totally filled again.
We all have our unique memories of our time spent with Morris – times well-remembered, and certainly not to be forgotten.
All that I can do right now, for you Kathy, for Mary and Paige, for my brothers, for his colleagues at US Air, and for the rest of his friends, is to tell you what kind of special man and caring friend Morris was to me.
I think that first and last impressions of certain people, events, and paces are indelibly etched in our brains. That is the case for me with Morris. So, I would like to tell you about the very first, and, then the very last time I saw Morris Ford.
We met in 1973 when I was invited to pledge the Sigma Chi Fraternity at Embry-Riddle. Only a little over a year before that, I had been on my second tour flying attack missions over Vietnam and Laos, and managing to get wounded. By the time I got out of the hospital in Japan, out of the military, and finally back to school in Florida, a little “college fraternity hazing” seemed a very small consequence to me.
I had obviously not reckoned on meeting one Morris H. Ford!
As I approached the front door of the Sigma Chi house that Spring evening in Daytona Beach, out of the corner of my eye, I saw a figure to my left. Morris had come bounding out of his room with a big grin on his face. He walked right up to me, reached right out and shook my hand.
I could tell right away that he was proud of his very strong grip – he had this almost impish look in his eye, as if to say, “I’ll bet I can squeeze harder than you!”
Morris was the first brother I met at the house. I realized right then that Morris Ford was going to make this fraternity thing a meaningful “consequence” for me.
His enthusiasm, his swagger (oh, he had a swagger), his knowledge, his intensity, his confidence, and his penetrating gaze are an image I will always have of him.
I was inspired by this young man who cared so much about everything he did; school, flying, Sigma Chi, even his room was highly organized, and of course, his eventual decision and plan to join the Navy.
Morris was deadly serious about the studies and tasks that a pledge had to complete. He taught us about the brotherhood, but in every sentence you could hear him on another frequency: “Pledge, do you really want this? Are you prepared to work? Are you willing to dedicate yourself to becoming a brother in Sigma Chi?” He was both teacher and taskmaster – but all for the greater good.
Morris and I exchanged hundreds of emails over the last 10 years or so. Mostly they were about our politics, current events, and anything that had to do with veterans, patriotism, and military aircraft.
We were kindred spirits in our views, and I loved him all the more for his passionate opinions. (By the way, those opinions were always correct.)
The last time I saw Morris was just this past December in Philadelphia at the annual Army-Navy game – more than 37 years after that balmy evening in Daytona Beach!
A high school classmate of mine had made the military a career, and had been a West Point Professor before he retired in the 1990’s. He had sky-box seats to the “big game” – was I interested? (What a silly question.)
I knew that Paige was at West Point in her senior year and immediately emailed Morris on the chance that he would be attending. I was thrilled that we would meet up somehow in that huge crowd.
And, there he stood. Morris was wearing a United States Military Academy black fleece jacket with the dates of his daughters’ graduation years on his chest.
I watched in admiration – his arm around Paige and the utter, indescribable pride in his smile – that very same smile from all those years ago!
I had told Morris earlier in the year that the best testimony to success was not fame or riches, but in watching your children grow up with good values and to turn out well.
In my estimation, by that measure, Morris Ford was an incredible success as both a man, and as a father. I will never forget his beaming face from that moment with Paige and Kathy at his side. I truly envied his joy that day.
My chief regret now, is not having spent more time with him, the wonderful Morris I knew (and his family), after those years in school way back when.
I also regret that I was not there (that we were not there) – for him in his hour of unimaginable need.
If there is a silver lining to all of this, and I know that it is hard to find one, it’s the message or lesson that life can be so fragile, and sometimes, (certainly this time), way too short.
We all need to cherish our loved ones and our friends – and to tell them just that, and right to their faces. They are the most important things we can have after all. And, I’d like to think Morris would be telling us that right now if he could.
I saw two quotes recently that seem to fit the lesson that should come out of why we had to be gathered here today. They both remind me of Morris, and, in a way, I feel that they are a tribute to how he lived. They go like this:
1. “Live every day as if nothing was a miracle, yet live every day as if everything was a miracle.”
2. “You make a living by what you do. But, you make a life by what you give.”
(Of course, I specifically numbered those quotes in proper sequence, just as Morris would have expected me to do!)
Morris, you gave me much. You were a miracle in my life, and many others.  We were all made better by knowing you. I know that I was.
Mary, Paige – you know what lies before you: Duty, Honor, Country. You have experienced a profound loss. It may sound odd today, but I hope you will take some comfort in the responsibilities you have in leading young soldiers; to be an example to others on how to overcome tragedy with dignity.
You’ve taken a courageous path in your lives, and as a veteran, I thank you for your service. We all thank you. Just work hard to make your Dad proud. That way, you will always do well.
Kathy our hearts and prayers are with you.
Morris, I will sorely miss you.
Goodbye, my brother.
Farewell, my friend.

Morris Ford Passes Away

Brothers,
Capt. Morris FordIt is with a heavy heart that I inform you that Brother Morris Ford ’75, has unexpectedly passed away under tragic circumstances.
A reception and memorial service for Captain Mo Ford have been planned as follows:
Location:
Matthews United Methodist Church
801 S. Trade St., Matthews, NC 28105
704-847-6261

For directions:
www.matthewsumc.org
Date: Saturday, June 5th
Time: Reception – 10:30 -11:30 AM
Memorial Service – 11:30-12:30

Interment:
Arlington National Cemetery
214 McNair Road
Fort Myer, VA 22211-1304
(703) 697-5187
www.arlingtoncemetary.org
Date: TBD

Obituary as posted in the Charlotte Observer:

Morris Ford 
‘Mo’ 
Mr. Ford, a retired Naval Officer and US Airways pilot, died at his home in south Charlotte early Wednesday, June 2, 2010. He was 57 years old. Morris was born to Dr. J.T. and Mary Helen Ford, February 8, 1953 in Birmingham, Alabama. 
Mo spent his childhood in Atlanta, Georgia and Alexandria, Virginia. His passion for flying developed as a young student watching planes from his classroom window seat growing up near the Nation’s capital. Upon graduation from Embry-Riddle University in Daytona Beach Florida, he began his career as an officer in the United States Navy. Hired in 1982 by US Airways, Mo served as both a pilot and a flight instructor. He considered his legacy of teaching other pilots over his 28 year career his greatest accomplishment with the organization he so passionately loved. He was also a devoted Sigma Chi belonging to the Eta Iota chapter at Embry-Riddle. 
During his 20 years of military service, he flew P-3s as a Soviet submarine reconnaissance pilot, later transitioning to T-2 jets in Meridian, Mississippi. The final years of his Navy career were spent as a Blue and Gold recruiting officer for the United States Naval Academy at Annapolis, Maryland. 
Mo is survived by his wife of 25 years, Kathleen Jane Ford, along with his two daughters, 1LT Mary Ford, currently serving as a U.S. Army Officer in Afghanistan, and 2LT Paige Ford, who recently graduated from West Point. He is also survived by his parents, Dr. J. T. and Mary Helen Ford, brother Tom Ford and wife Pam, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. 
He is preceded in death by his brother, Warren Ford, Snellville, Georgia. 
A memorial service will be held at Matthews United Methodist Church at 11:30 Saturday morning, June 5, 2010, preceded immediately with a visitation at 10:30. 
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to support Soldiers for the USO Support System at USO-Charlotte Center, 5501 Josh Birmingham Pkwy, PO Box 21, Charlotte, NC 28208 or Matthews United Methodist Church, 801 S. Trade St., Matthews, NC 28105. 
Arrangements are in the care of Heritage Funeral Home, Weddington Chapel. An online guestbook is available at www.heritagefuneral.net.

Guestbooks:

Heritage Funeral Home (click on the guestbook link at the top of the obituary)

Charlotte Observer/ Legacy.com

House Corporation February 2010 Newsletter

My Brothers,

The month of January has been one of the most trying months I have seen in the past 10 years.  We have had some major security and safety issues.  Let me assure everyone; all the Brothers are safe, that corrective actions have already been taken and we will continue to evaluate the long term effect these recent events have on the property and the young men that live there.

Over the Christmas Holiday break, the property was broken into several times.  The first of these events took place somewhere around 3:00-4:00am, whereas some of our neighbors proceeded to use a cinder block to break the door and door-frame into the pump room and laundry room.  The damage was severe enough that we needed to replace the doors and frames.  Within these two locations the suspects made off with Brother Scalley’s BMX bike (which was chained to the wall in the back of the pump room), some power tools, and other odds and ends.  The following night, the DJ booth was hit and the amplifier was taken.  Neither incident was captured on our video surveillance system. Continue reading →

January/February 2010 Undergraduate Newsletter

After a successful doubling of the chapter this past fall, we look forward to a semester filled with adventure and excitement. Some of the great fun in store for this semester includes Derby Days, Greek Week, Province Workshop, and the installment of the Florida Gulf Coast University Chapter at which Eta Iota has been asked to take a lead role. The success of any strong organization lies in recruitment, and this is why this semester the Chapter has decided to bring in the Mission 365 team after the initiation of the Spring pledge class. With the help of Mission 365 our fresh new brothers and the remaining senior brothers will be able to take on Fall ’10 as strong as ever! As for the semester at hand, whether you are a Newly Initiated Brother taking one small step towards graduation, or a senior brother about to take one giant leap into your career, get ready, because these are the times of your life!

Christopher Payne ’10
Consul
(401) 243-7615
therealcrittp@yahoo.com

  • PRO-CONSUL REPORT
  • THE SOCIAL CORNER
  • A FOCUS ON GPA
  • SIGMA CHI DEFEATED
  • N.I.B.S.
  • FINANCES

Click below to download the full Newsletter
January 2010 Undergraduate Chapter Newsletter

January House Corp News

Brothers,

In This Issue
Happy New Year
New initiates
39th Birthday Party
House Update
   (A/C, Termites, Pool, Security)
1855 Club

Let me begin with a hardy Happy New Year and best wishes to you and your families in this coming year. I hope everyone had a save holiday season filled with much rejoice. I would be remiss if I did not apologize for my lack of communication to you all over the past three months. My efforts have been directed more at undergraduate successes and overseeing the improvements at our beloved house. This is no excuse for not informing you, our alumni Brothers, as to the conditions at 520 S Ridgewood via monthly e-mail updates. I will do all I can to correct these action in the months to come. I appreciate your patience and continued support over the past year. If you have not received any monthly updates I implore you to visit www.Etaiota.org and update your email/contact information. We, your House Corporation, continue to be steadfast in our mission to improve the living and educational experience of the current undergraduate chapter. We will continue to build toward tomorrow while respecting our historical legacy. Continue reading →